There is nothing wrong morally with same sex attraction. It is no more complex than opposite sex attraction. Attraction in itself comes with complexities. That is part of life. Complexities are there to help us realize who we really are at the core of our being. Interaction brings up all these complexities of human personality.
Acting on what is natural to you as a person when it comes to sexuality is not a sin. What is sin anyway; but someone's perception or disagreement of an action that does not validate their own lifestyle. To not live as you were created to live is a gross violation of integrity. Religion preaches this from the pulpit but is far from living it in truth for the most part.
Attraction is attraction and sometimes it makes no sense at all. It just is. Do gay people choose to be attracted to another gay person? No more so than the heterosexual to the opposite sex. Its in the makeup of that human being.
People experiment with sexuality all the time to better understand themselves.
Some are straight, some are gay, some swing either way.
Every one does choose how to respond to attractions if they are not living in complete life denial. Not choosing to do something is also a choice.
Every life on the planet has a purpose for being, be it understood or not. Love knows no gender. Love is the essense and center of all balance.
Sex and the expression thereof is divine of nature. When two come together something in the body chemisty happens that is natural and creates a bonding type of feeling. Thus, the old expression of being twine. Humanity is the one that puts labels on things as being perverted, bad, good, etc. All is experience. All experience is growth or awareness of some kind.
In both the straight and gay life style there can be imbalance on the expression of sexuality. Some simply can not get enough of it. Some are addicted to the sensation of ejaculation or getting fucked, sucked etc.... Sexual dysfunction goes far beyond the realm of not being able to perform or get it up. Sex can become an addiction like food, alcohol or drugs.
Sexual expression is a good thing. Sex is fun or should be. Sex is not completely about pro-creation or even bonding. The sexual act is part of getting in touch with our core being. We are sexual beings. It's our makeup. Some may disagree with me on this last comment or you may disagree with my whole commentary. Thats fine. Be and live who you are.
Sexuality and spirituality are connected and I say this without using the context of organized religion. If organized religion has a place in your life that is fine. If it does not that is also fine. Just be true to who you are. Live in that integrity, for this is your truth. Live your life in abundance.
Friday, December 7, 2012
Thursday, December 6, 2012
How Do Others Perceive and How Do You Perceive Yourself?
Quote of the Day: " Look at yourself. You're so pretty and colorful on the outside, but on the inside you're nothing but fluff. You're like a walking talking marshmellow people." character Aaron from Latter Days the movie.
Live who you are with integrity and truth and people will love you if that love is based on charity.
You can not truly love others without first loving yourself.
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
Introduction to why I started this blog
All life is beautiful and we need to appreciate who we are as individuals. After much thought I have decided to begin a blog in hopes that it will be of benefit to those who read it. I have read many blog entries on the internet and decided that a blog aimed at older gay men would be a nice project for not only my own self growth but hopefully to help others.
Many of us that are single go in search of love through many avenues. In this search ones look for validation of who they are. A temporary fix can be found by looking around but a more permanent one must originate from within. We have to be comfortable in our own skin and if we do not like something about our life or appearance we can take steps to improve. The committment must come from within and there has to be a hunger for it, otherwise it will be fleeting. No one can do it for you. They can inspire and help you towards your goal but you must take responsibility for your own life.
Until that responsible attitude is taken seriously you will continue to remain in the same place. Change requires action or movement.
Our life is all about experiences and what can be learned from them. What has been learned varies from individual to individual. What is it that you truly seek? Have you identified what it is you want to manifest in your life? Have you sat down and written a plan to accomplish acquiring that which you want? Why is it that you want that particular thing? Will that thing bring you more happiness?
When you look in the mirror what do you see? Do you see the light that you truly are? What do I mean by light you may ask? I mean you are good as you are. You are already whole but just have not realized this. Happiness is a state of mind that is created. No one can give you happiness. You have to realize this from within yourself. Lets say for example you are sitting at home at your computer going through internet sights looking for love and you feel miserable because no one seems interested. Step away from the computer, put on some music that changes your mood, take a jog or go out and mingle with the public. You may say, but I am not in the mood. Thats an excuse generated by your brain. Shut that negative recording off and do it anyway. You are not your brain. Your thoughts can be trained and new recordings can be programed for you to access. Do some good programing. Doing creates a reality. Sitting creates notta. Create your reality.
Note: This is a new project for me and I am learning as I go. I am creating out of imperfection. That's how you begin. You work with what you have and make it better. I desire to communicate through writing. My skills are very rusty and will only get better the more I do it. The same is true for everything we do in life. Practice makes perfect. Perfection is obtained one thing at a time. Example being: I can perfectly tie my shoe strings. Put on those shoes and get moving! 12-5-2012
Many of us that are single go in search of love through many avenues. In this search ones look for validation of who they are. A temporary fix can be found by looking around but a more permanent one must originate from within. We have to be comfortable in our own skin and if we do not like something about our life or appearance we can take steps to improve. The committment must come from within and there has to be a hunger for it, otherwise it will be fleeting. No one can do it for you. They can inspire and help you towards your goal but you must take responsibility for your own life.
Until that responsible attitude is taken seriously you will continue to remain in the same place. Change requires action or movement.
Our life is all about experiences and what can be learned from them. What has been learned varies from individual to individual. What is it that you truly seek? Have you identified what it is you want to manifest in your life? Have you sat down and written a plan to accomplish acquiring that which you want? Why is it that you want that particular thing? Will that thing bring you more happiness?
When you look in the mirror what do you see? Do you see the light that you truly are? What do I mean by light you may ask? I mean you are good as you are. You are already whole but just have not realized this. Happiness is a state of mind that is created. No one can give you happiness. You have to realize this from within yourself. Lets say for example you are sitting at home at your computer going through internet sights looking for love and you feel miserable because no one seems interested. Step away from the computer, put on some music that changes your mood, take a jog or go out and mingle with the public. You may say, but I am not in the mood. Thats an excuse generated by your brain. Shut that negative recording off and do it anyway. You are not your brain. Your thoughts can be trained and new recordings can be programed for you to access. Do some good programing. Doing creates a reality. Sitting creates notta. Create your reality.
Note: This is a new project for me and I am learning as I go. I am creating out of imperfection. That's how you begin. You work with what you have and make it better. I desire to communicate through writing. My skills are very rusty and will only get better the more I do it. The same is true for everything we do in life. Practice makes perfect. Perfection is obtained one thing at a time. Example being: I can perfectly tie my shoe strings. Put on those shoes and get moving! 12-5-2012
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